Nov. 13, 2025

Emotional Health with Our Pets

Emotional Health with Our Pets

Have you ever realized how your pets behavior affects your emotions and behavior? Our behavior and emotions are directly tied together. We show you how to read what is really going on, the reality of the energy in our unique relationship with our furry family.

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Any health related information on the following show provides general

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information only. Content presented on any show by any host

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or guests should not be substituted for a doctor's advice.

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Always consult your physician before beginning any new diet, exercise,

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or treatment program. Then now it's time for Pet Health Cafe,

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where your Pet has a Voice. And here's your host, Bill,

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the Pet Health Guru, and.

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Welcome to Pet Health Cafe to show where your pet

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has a voice. This is Bill, a pet health Guru

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and sitting here starting another show.

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Sorry for the delay.

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We had a couple of technical problems with the connections,

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but we're here and we're still going to run the

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same show anyway.

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I've got a great show for you again.

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We want you to share with everybody you can like

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and subscribe.

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The chat will be open.

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And we've got a very different or kind of unique

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show for tonight that's going to involve people as well

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as our pets and how it's all interrelated. And with

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that being said, I want to bring on my special

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guests that my health coach Guru, if you will, Michelle,

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are you there.

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I am here finally with all our technical.

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Difficulties, so I'm really sorry. Guys.

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No, that happens sometimes.

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You know, we've had it happen before on the show anyway,

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and that's always you know, it's always an issue sometimes

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with guests and that sort of thing. And I know

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that you were having some technical difficulties on one computer

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and had to switch computers at the last minute, and

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you know you're a trouper for hanging in there. Let

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me put it that way.

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Of this, they come throughout the throughout the storm.

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I'm so happy to be here tonight, build because this

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is one of my passions, being able to help people.

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Pet parents and all parents arelike, you know, how to

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have a happier existence with the holidays coming up and everything,

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you know, Thanksgiving and Christmas, it's kind of a hard

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time for some people, you know, they get depressed, they

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get sad, it's time and we've lost loved ones. So

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I feel like tonight I really wanted to tone in

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on helping people and explain.

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People you don't have to be alone.

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You have to learn to do more self care and

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love yourself. And a lot of people, though they say

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they love themselves, their honest reality is it's a really

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hard thing sometimes for people to do when it's not

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that hard, and I'm going to walk into a lot

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of different ways which I live my existence.

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So that I.

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And that's very important because you know, on this show

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we talk a lot about a lot of energy and uh,

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what our pets really mean to us, how close they

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are to us, and you know, they they react to us.

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They understand us better than we think they do. And

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if we're going into the holiday season especially, and you know,

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there's a lot of chaos going on, if you will,

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with dinners and relatives and friends and all these events

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going on, and sometimes the pets feel neglected. You know,

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they're thrown into the bedroom, you know, when the guests

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are there, they're upset. Uh, And of course we're picking

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up their energy as well, because now you're worried about

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your dog that's locked up in a bedroom or in

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a bathroom or whatever.

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Happens to be.

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And if they're if they're you know, real sociable type

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and they're in the room with us and you had

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kids running around possibly and you know, people get involved

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in political you know, dialogue and you know this one's

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arguing with this one, and so there's a lot of

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chaos that goes on in that whole environment. And you know,

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I know that you're going to guide us down a

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couple of things that because let's face it, the pet

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parent has the set to tone, don't.

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They absolutely, Bill, But just the piggyback off of what

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you said. If we love who we are, if we

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are self, if we are confident who we are, we

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will be able to tackle any chaos that's going to

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happen during the holidays.

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That work what have you just now?

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I had, you know, I thought I was going to

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do nuts because my computer wasn't working.

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I had a hold on I go, well, this is

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hilled back.

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You know this, this is okay. But why I thought

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about this? Bills with you and I. You know I've

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posted to a few times in the past, and what

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I thought was, you know, Bill is so set. He's

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an entrepreneur like many of you out there, and he's

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so gung ho on getting the right information, which is

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absolutely stupendous. However, Bill doesn't know how to relax. Bill

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doesn't know that he has the rest of the brain

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so that he can be able to, you know, perform

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even better of all the things that he's doing. So

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Bill and I have this conversation.

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You know, you need to learn to shut down.

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So first of all, learning to shut down and learning

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to be more in tune, more in love with who

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you are.

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Those are two key components to what.

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I'm going to talk about now. If we I've had

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pets my whole life, I have four animals right now.

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I have two pets, two dogs, and anyone walks into

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my home, they will say to me, you know what, Michelle,

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those pets are so nice, they love you, They're calm.

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Why are they always so calm? I've gone into homes

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where the pets are not calm, right, Why is that

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they're picking up on my personal energy. I am very

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loving to my animal. Not only am I feeding them

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the right foods, but I'm also taking central walks, I'm

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playing with them, I'm heading them.

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They are a major source, major part of who I

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am my life. I don't I'm in love in my head,

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but I love them.

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Keep but one of the.

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Things I need to explain, love in yourself can be done.

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I did not.

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I did not come here today to my horn and

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say that I'm so perfect and not. I've had divorces,

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I've had losses, just like many of you have. And

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I've learned all of these skills. I've learned to better myself.

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And so the first thing I do in the morning.

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It's crucial.

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I wake up. I don't run out of bed, I

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don't jump into my day. I set my intention. And

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before I even set my intention, I do some leg

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exercises to get the body moving. I do my light

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stretches in and out, and I do one hundred of those.

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That might sound ridiculous, but that gives your brain a

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chance to be able to say, Hey, what am I

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going to do today? How will I choose my day?

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Extremely important to be able to say, you know, I

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choose to be happy, because if you go into your day,

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no matter what happened, the cat food or you're impede

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or all of those things that possibly happened in the morning,

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right or the baby threw up, whatever it is that's

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happening in your morning, the traffic. We need to be

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able to become calm in a state of chaos. So

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when you're going to your events, Christmas holidays, your Thanksgiving holidays,

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and people are getting you on edge, you need to

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be able to stop in your own brain without people

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knowing the course and stop yourself and say, wait a minute,

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I know how to bring that com back.

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Let's go back to the day.

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So I start with my little exercise takes me literally freeman.

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I wake up and make sure I'm happy. I do

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not put on the news. I know a lot of

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people they put the news on this once they get up,

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they live with the news, they keep.

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The TP on in their home. I do not do

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do that.

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Bill.

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That's that's I mean, that's that's probably the most depressing

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or anxiety ridden way to start.

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Your day, you know, in the morning. Yeah exactly.

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And of course, you know, I know you as an

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educator too, you know that what's facing you at your job,

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you know, under the kids, all with different new all

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with different anxiety levels, energy levels, out all of that,

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and it's you know, I mean, I at least get

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to ease into my my day with my employee and

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the team, and you know, but you know, just like

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everything else, I mean, I walk in the door, the

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grinder's not working, the freezers not freezing fast enough. We

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ran out of whatever commodity we need to make for

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that day. You know, it's it's a it's a battle

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that we know we're going to have to face no

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matter what, So you have to got to start it

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out in a positive note, don't you.

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Well, we have challenge. Every one of us has challenging.

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There's absolutely no way we can get out of this

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lifetime without a challenge.

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It's how we go about that, you know.

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That's how we learn, isn't it. That's a learning.

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You know, at my age, I'm still learning absolutely.

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My daughter is now twenty and I had homeschooled her.

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I had homeschooled ver many years.

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And why I started that was because she had anxiety

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right she she couldn't her throat is closing.

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I almost pult her. I took care of her book

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for the anxiety.

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If you're very interested in learning how to get calmer,

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there are mindfulness practices that you can do. There are

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courses lose meditation Dave Potter. I can get you some

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more information. Just end me on Facebook. Excellent, excellent course

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on mindfulness meditation. But here's the the you know, here's

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the thing though. Do you meditate?

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To be honest, no, I don't. I have tried.

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I've tried it hundreds of times, and it's just you know,

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the closest I've come is when one of the kids,

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and you know, on on the farm and was able

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to walk the woods for hours at end and just

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enjoy nature.

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And my mind would go totally different today with.

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The high, you know, high volume of information I have

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to process every day. And of course, you know, because

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you've heard it here on the show. I'm always trying

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when a client comes in. Are they calling and they've

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got a special problem or a problem that they don't understand?

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You know? Did I dive in and I go down

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the rabbit hole?

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You know, and when you go down one, it opens

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up four more doors and now you're, you know, fourteen

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levels below where you started. The moment off and the

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brain doesn't shut down, right, But what if.

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a break.

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What if you've learned so far, you know, one of

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my brain One of the things that actually calmed me

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down is a lot of my clients because when I

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get into what I call my zone, when you know

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I you know, I'm solving the problem itself, and you know,

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I give a ton of information.

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In fact, at the end of the day to day I.

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Was talking with the team, and it came up that

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you know, I put out so much much and I

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know that I fry people's brains when I do that.

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But on the other side of it, I try to

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move back to where they start. But I know that

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I've also triggered the fact that they and this is

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coming in today's society, that the answer to the problem

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is not that one pill, that one drink, that one food.

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You know, it's it's going to be an ongoing process

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to go from here where you're in so called dis

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ease to coming into how do I break it into

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little pieces and be consistent and not get disappointed that

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it didn't, you know, unlike taking a drug that you know,

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I got pain in my shoulder and I take a

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painkiller and it goes away, but it always comes back.

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I want to look for the long term solution.

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got a couple of cases right now where I've got

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clients that I can't sleep or they can't function very well,

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they're always in pain, and they take a pill and

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then two days later it's like, now I'm dealing with

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the side effects on top of the original problem, and

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you know this.

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Took my whole mindfulness. It went all the way around

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to one hundred and sixty degree.

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That's my bill.

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Everybody see things really out of the pack. But where

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I was going with that is that mindfulness is mindful eating,

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mindful speaking.

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Everything we do with mindfulness to be able to talk.

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About present, what's going on right now. What happens is

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people are stressed, which causes disease and inflammation. But that

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stress can be fixed if they don't go back to

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the past. Going back to your past brings up a

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lot of pips. I'm not saying forget your path, but

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if you constantly are saddened by it, if every day

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you wake up and you're just thinking about X, y

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Z that happened in the past, then that past is

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effecting you're present. But if you're just sitting right now

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in the present moment, we're talking, we're having a conversation,

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we're not thinking about anything else. That's what it is

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to me and some people who have studied mindfulness is

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you're meditating, but you.

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Don't have to do an actual harm.

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in the morning, I do some breathing I'll drive and

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if there's traffic and I get nervous, I'm breathing, right,

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It's important to breathe. Breathing is what's going to create.

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Less stress for me. So that is critical.

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People think, oh, they hold their breath, you know, but

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breath God's gift to us.

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You need to have that breath. So we have to

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go on break eam, No, you keep it.

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We're running the same So just watch the clock in

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the corner. Get five, four minutes, Yeah, got four moom mines.

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Did we lose her again? Well, I can hear you.

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I can hear you.

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I lost your first second. I don't know what happened.

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Okay, So technology.

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Technology, one of the biggest stressors of your day, I know,

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and how tonight of mind. But you have to just

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put into perspective and I do a lot of affirmation

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you know that this too shall pass. And I constantly

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remind myself, and I remind myself because I'm in the classroom,

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I'm teaching, I'm talking to kids, I'm talking to teachers.

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All of that is stressful or mainly for the other

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teachers because I'm walking around a different classroom. But what

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I want to explain is that it doesn't have to

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be stressful. Even though a kid is screaming twenty four

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to seven, it doesn't have to be because you can

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get back into your zone and go this to show

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pass and you breathe it out. And I'll give you

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an example. Today, I was working in my office. Little

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three year olds were screaming and I was trying to

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get through some really critical work. And I sat there.

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I heard the children screaming, and I kept saying, Okay,

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I'm good, I've got this, I got this.

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I can do this if.

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You allow yourself to go into a state of panic,

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if you allow yourself to get you know, literally crazy,

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when you're causing to your God in no way and

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it for us, that's what it is really simple. But

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you know, take time for yourself, watch a movie if

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that makes you happy. To find what makes you happy

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doesn't only have to be your work.

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I know your passion is helping pets and families.

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My passion is also teaching and educating and helping families realize.

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You know that they call it healthier happier lives.

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But it doesn't only have to bead on the weekend.

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Take take ten minutes busy mom, you know, ten minutes

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for yourself, will do you wonder?

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Do something? Screaming at the children, screaming at the pets.

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That's not going to be helpful, and you know that

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it's only going to find yourself sickness, going to cause

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anger in the household. And we need to, you know,

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get a handle of a lot of parents, including the

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pet parents. They just fly off the handle because of

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the only thing they know, they've heard it from their parents.

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Go back to your little child, Go back to when

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you were a kid. What made you have re creative?

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If you have, you know what made you happy as

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a child? Bill, Come on, well, I mean the.

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Thing is, it's obviously my passion has always been with

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the animals, whether they're wild animals and just exerting them

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in nature, but also working with them and training. And

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that's sort of because I used to train dogs and

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I trained trainers over a number of years, and teaching

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the store of people in the industry how to do

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this and gloomers and all of that. That's I mean,

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that's less stressful that you know, that's that's basically no

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stress on me. Where the problem lies, of course, where

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you can get caught up so easily is when you

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I use common sense at least I think I do,

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and when you run into people that when you explain

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at fourteen different times. And of course that's why this

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show is on, you know, as often as it is.

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I can I talk about food and I talk about

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diet and I talk about behavior all the time, you know,

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trying to bring in different perspectives of it. Like with you,

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it's you know, not everybody has the same triggers, and

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sometimes you have to hear something a hundred times before

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it goes ding ding ding ding ding. And with that

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being said, we're going to take a quick break here

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right now and we'll be right back.

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And we're back here on the Pet Health Cafe, the

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show where your pet has a voice. This is Bill

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the Pet Health Guru, along with Michelle the trainer, the coach,

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and we're talking about emotion basically energy that we have

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to have in ourselves first, and they're going to streamline

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into our pets and our family and across the border people.

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We work with everything, doesn't it, Michelle.

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Our pets pick up everything. Oh I'm a little nervous

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or sad. My dogs right away they know the pick

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it up. Just before the show, I'll just tell you

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my doodle, she was licking my feet. I guess that

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was her way to say, it's okay, come down, you're

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gonna make it, you know. And they're wonderful. I mean, yes,

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when I get a little bit down, I play with them,

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I get them and they just they know they pick.

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Up every Yeah.

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And of course you know so many times like you know,

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when you've got events going on or like I say,

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especially coming into the holidays and that sort of thing.

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One of the things you need, I think people need

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to do is actually reflect on those animals as well

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that they're trying to tell you something they might have,

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you know, an accident or something like that, because they're

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internalizing what you're going through and that has internal you know,

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ramifications on their biochemistry. I mean, that's stress. That's what

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stress is. It's a change in biochemistry.

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But to piggy back and truck a little bit wrong.

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The family side and families, you know, you need to

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take care of yourself in order to take care of

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your heads on your and your children and everybody else.

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But you need to acknowledge that you come first. Some

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parents say, oh no, my kids come first. But if

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you don't take care of you, your kids don't have

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anything because you won't have you.

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You could come first.

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One of the phrases that I've coined is called the

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love bubble, and I may have mentioned it before. I

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tell everybody I meet when they they're three years old,

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four years old adults, it sounds weird to me, Weld

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and I'm going to try to explain it the investry

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that I so.

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I tell little children and I know you're you know.

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You're not a baby, bill, but just imagine this, okay,

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So just put your blow or your love bubble like

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I say, around you. And when you're feeling other people's thanks,

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other people's anxiety, when those daggers keep coming, know that

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that is surrounding you, protecting your heart, is protecting your

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soul feeling. And then what I tell little kids and parents,

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we can do this too. We can tell those to it.

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Nothing is going to penetrate its when they're bothing, when

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they're bad, behave you're going on. That's not going to

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go to that child's heart. And it works at my school.

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The kids love it, they really do. So if we

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as adults can internalize that and just make it for ourselves.

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And know that when we're taking the abuse abusive.

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Language from someone, we need to put that on and

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remind ourselves and we are important. I am enough, i

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am essential, I'm awesome. Never visit Wanna Center and my

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high ensry. But that's critical to startying a love with

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your side, protecting who you are.

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But I know as a mom, and I know as

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you know parents We don't do that, you know, we don't.

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We tend to.

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Oh but my poor child, I've done it. I'm I

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pers you know how to do that? How that I

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raise a child? Here? It takes time, It takes effort,

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It takes having no fear, no fears, and affrin and

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face it and rise. That's hard as a pin, as

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a parent, we want our kids to be so happy.

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You want them to be perfect.

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They can't. You know, if we as parents.

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Cannot expect our children to be what we want because

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that's what we want, they have to live their lives too.

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especially more so today than like when I was growing up,

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and probably even when you were growing up. You know,

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the influencers, you know, on social media, the great divide

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that we have in this country right now on you know,

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political issues and life issues and everything else.

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It's it's not the blend that I grew up in.

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I'm not going to be able to fix everybody. I'm

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not going to be able to explain it in a

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way that they can understand. And it's you know, as

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I'm getting older and older and older. It's like I

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have to realize that at some point in time, I

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have to phase myself out, retire whatever, and I won't

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have the energy. I want to be able to have

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the energy to do it forever, until the one hundred

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and twenty years old or better. But anyway I have,

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it puts me on a roller coaster sometimes because I

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get I can disappoint myself because I couldn't communicate it

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the right way.

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I couldn't teach it the right way.

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I couldn't make I couldn't make the bad stuff go away,

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even though it's I have the knowledge to do it,

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but it's not in my control. And that's I think

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a big part of this whole thing, too, is people

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trying to be in control. And you know, so many

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people when they look at that, you know, they're getting

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bombarded with so many different ideas, so many different theories,

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so many different approaches. They're just they just throw up

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their hands. It's like it is what it is, you know,

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I don't want to do anything because I'm in perfection

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paralysis basically.

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00:27:12.680 --> 00:27:16.160
And you know, talk about that as well, and you

482
00:27:16.200 --> 00:27:20.240
know I used to have that perfect home.

483
00:27:20.480 --> 00:27:22.440
If you get an A in school.

484
00:27:22.319 --> 00:27:24.440
Must get the A or I'm not going to make

485
00:27:24.480 --> 00:27:26.960
it in life. And you know, as an age, I

486
00:27:27.079 --> 00:27:30.200
realized it's not so important to get the AID. What's

487
00:27:30.240 --> 00:27:33.640
more important is did you learn anything from it? You know,

488
00:27:33.720 --> 00:27:36.480
if you're in a sport, not that you have to

489
00:27:36.559 --> 00:27:40.319
win every single time that people have that where they

490
00:27:40.359 --> 00:27:42.599
have to win, they have to get the A, they have.

491
00:27:42.599 --> 00:27:45.759
To be the perfect parent they have. There is no perfection.

492
00:27:46.920 --> 00:27:50.240
Uh, you know, worry, worry about this, worry about that.

493
00:27:50.240 --> 00:27:53.880
That's a negative prayer. We cannot just live our life

494
00:27:54.000 --> 00:27:55.640
worrying because that's stressed with.

495
00:27:55.720 --> 00:27:56.640
The body again.

496
00:27:57.160 --> 00:28:00.920
And every time I start worrying, you know, like I

497
00:28:00.960 --> 00:28:04.000
said about my child right to drive it, I sometimes

498
00:28:04.039 --> 00:28:07.640
go there, I done me. But every time I think

499
00:28:07.680 --> 00:28:10.440
about it, I go, oh wait a minute, pause it

500
00:28:10.559 --> 00:28:12.960
is they not before you can do it again?

501
00:28:13.440 --> 00:28:13.839
Pause.

502
00:28:14.279 --> 00:28:17.240
Worrying is not to me, Like I actually have talked

503
00:28:17.319 --> 00:28:20.960
with myself. As much as that sounds nuts, you have

504
00:28:21.079 --> 00:28:25.039
to because otherwise you're on that emotional rollercoaster over and

505
00:28:25.079 --> 00:28:25.759
over again.

506
00:28:26.079 --> 00:28:29.359
And you know when you stop, and so you can't

507
00:28:29.400 --> 00:28:29.960
sleep at.

508
00:28:30.000 --> 00:28:34.759
Night until inflammation, constipation, all of these things come into

509
00:28:34.839 --> 00:28:37.480
your body and then you go, oh, why is that

510
00:28:37.759 --> 00:28:41.720
dont worry you know, no sleep, especially women that can

511
00:28:41.960 --> 00:28:45.519
ig no sleep and worrying all the time.

512
00:28:45.599 --> 00:28:47.200
That's a no, no, don't know.

513
00:28:47.359 --> 00:28:50.599
We have to learn to saying though, you know. And

514
00:28:50.640 --> 00:28:53.960
that's especially for women, and I think even for you, Bill,

515
00:28:54.079 --> 00:28:56.680
But you're something you don't really know how to say no,

516
00:28:57.279 --> 00:29:00.519
and it's not such a terrible thing to say. You

517
00:29:00.640 --> 00:29:03.440
have to explain why you're saying no. Then you're already

518
00:29:04.640 --> 00:29:08.640
then you feel guilty. But the saying no is really

519
00:29:08.720 --> 00:29:12.960
critical sometimes to serve your heart, keep yourself in town.

520
00:29:13.359 --> 00:29:14.640
You know, I had to it.

521
00:29:15.119 --> 00:29:17.839
We all knew, you know. It's it's interesting.

522
00:29:17.880 --> 00:29:21.519
I got to call from another Michelle by the way anyway,

523
00:29:22.640 --> 00:29:26.759
that runs a foundation that's a rescue, an animal rescue,

524
00:29:27.119 --> 00:29:29.920
and she does a wonderful job with what she does.

525
00:29:30.359 --> 00:29:32.519
And one of the one of the foster parents that

526
00:29:32.839 --> 00:29:37.559
was fostering some of their animals, didn't follow instructions properly,

527
00:29:39.039 --> 00:29:42.400
took the took the animal from being in a foster

528
00:29:42.480 --> 00:29:46.000
position that got adopted out. Another set of mistakes got

529
00:29:46.039 --> 00:29:50.799
made and the animal is basically got to go through

530
00:29:50.799 --> 00:29:53.319
a major detox because it had everything to do with diet,

531
00:29:53.319 --> 00:29:55.240
and of course, you know, with us doing raw diets,

532
00:29:55.559 --> 00:29:58.480
people just don't understand that. And she called me and said,

533
00:29:58.519 --> 00:30:01.599
what should I do? Because the person that adopted the

534
00:30:01.680 --> 00:30:07.720
animal wants to rush the animal directly to the emergency room.

535
00:30:07.880 --> 00:30:10.160
And remember when I said, it's not an emergency, but

536
00:30:10.200 --> 00:30:14.200
they want her to pay for it. And an emergency

537
00:30:14.240 --> 00:30:16.960
service like that today, even on a kitten, is like

538
00:30:17.000 --> 00:30:18.599
four or five thousand dollars.

539
00:30:18.799 --> 00:30:21.759
You know, it's like, no, you wait it out, you know.

540
00:30:21.839 --> 00:30:24.599
It's it's I had I had to do exactly what

541
00:30:24.759 --> 00:30:27.000
we're talking about here. I had to put her into

542
00:30:27.039 --> 00:30:30.359
a state where you have to say, no, bring it

543
00:30:30.400 --> 00:30:32.400
back to me. I'll take care of it, you know,

544
00:30:34.000 --> 00:30:35.559
I'll you know, if you want to keep it, I'll

545
00:30:35.599 --> 00:30:38.440
work with you. But I'm not paying that bill. And

546
00:30:38.720 --> 00:30:41.160
you know, unfortunately, in the way the laws are written

547
00:30:41.160 --> 00:30:43.640
to on some of this stuff, she could still be

548
00:30:43.720 --> 00:30:46.640
held liable for that. And it's like, no, cancel the adoption.

549
00:30:47.200 --> 00:30:48.799
And you know, if you want to adopt another one

550
00:30:49.000 --> 00:30:51.039
at a later date, you know, we'll give you some

551
00:30:51.079 --> 00:30:55.640
more information, some more guidance and more teaching and then

552
00:30:55.680 --> 00:30:58.079
we'll go from there. But you know, this is this

553
00:30:58.160 --> 00:31:01.799
is you know, my part is it's an everyday thing.

554
00:31:02.000 --> 00:31:04.240
You know, I get sometimes I get called eight nine,

555
00:31:04.319 --> 00:31:07.119
ten o'clock at night, oh my god, or.

556
00:31:07.119 --> 00:31:08.400
I get it the first thing in the morning.

557
00:31:08.799 --> 00:31:10.599
I had to take him in in the middle of

558
00:31:10.640 --> 00:31:12.480
the night because he woke up and he pooped on

559
00:31:12.559 --> 00:31:16.440
the carpet. And that, you know, now they got a

560
00:31:16.680 --> 00:31:18.720
you know, a thousand dollars two thousand and three thousand

561
00:31:18.720 --> 00:31:19.440
dollars bill.

562
00:31:19.799 --> 00:31:21.279
For what the body is doing.

563
00:31:21.359 --> 00:31:24.519
Naturally, it's getting rid of bad stuff.

564
00:31:24.559 --> 00:31:29.079
They don't to say no because it's fear goes back

565
00:31:29.119 --> 00:31:34.119
to hear my dogs don't ask something. We all have it,

566
00:31:34.200 --> 00:31:37.160
we all go through it. It's it's not a challenge.

567
00:31:37.200 --> 00:31:41.680
It's how we react, how reaction to it. It's p

568
00:31:42.359 --> 00:31:46.400
if we jump, you know, how high can we fine

569
00:31:46.599 --> 00:31:51.000
or jump through hooops. It's just being able to handle

570
00:31:51.079 --> 00:31:57.039
certain situations without freaking out. Going back to your mindfulness

571
00:31:57.200 --> 00:32:00.519
right now in the present, what should I do right now?

572
00:32:01.279 --> 00:32:05.079
Not what happened, not what's going to happen. Why are

573
00:32:05.119 --> 00:32:09.839
people and see your going into the future.

574
00:32:11.799 --> 00:32:14.000
You're an interesting part of what you're just saying too.

575
00:32:14.039 --> 00:32:16.200
Because of your experience as a teacher and that sort

576
00:32:16.200 --> 00:32:19.079
of thing, I'm sure that you get kids being dropped

577
00:32:19.079 --> 00:32:23.680
off at school basically as kind of a co parent

578
00:32:23.960 --> 00:32:26.759
or babysitter or whatever how you want to do it.

579
00:32:27.200 --> 00:32:30.599
The kids got a runny nose or you know, they're

580
00:32:30.960 --> 00:32:33.559
got diarrhea, they got all kinds of issues going on,

581
00:32:33.920 --> 00:32:36.079
and the parents just think, okay, I can just drop.

582
00:32:35.920 --> 00:32:37.680
Them off and you're going to take care of them.

583
00:32:37.839 --> 00:32:41.079
But if it's their pat oh my god, I will,

584
00:32:41.119 --> 00:32:43.920
I will, I will take out a credit card, a

585
00:32:44.000 --> 00:32:48.440
care card for fifty thousand dollars to fix this problem.

586
00:32:48.519 --> 00:32:51.680
It's like makes no sense sometimes, and that's what that's

587
00:32:51.680 --> 00:32:54.319
one of the issues that I know I run against,

588
00:32:54.319 --> 00:32:55.960
and you know you run up against the other side

589
00:32:55.960 --> 00:32:56.200
of it.

590
00:32:56.400 --> 00:32:58.039
We're going to take a quick break here and we'll

591
00:32:58.039 --> 00:32:58.839
be right back.

592
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612
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Back here in a pet health cafe to show where

613
00:34:42.599 --> 00:34:43.440
your pet has a voice.

614
00:34:43.480 --> 00:34:45.880
This is build a Pet Health to rule and along

615
00:34:45.920 --> 00:34:50.920
with Michelle and one to remind people that the chat

616
00:34:51.159 --> 00:34:54.960
is open if you have questions that sort of thing comments,

617
00:34:55.079 --> 00:34:57.480
we'd really appreciate it, you know, we can hopefully we

618
00:34:57.519 --> 00:35:01.480
can give you some answers here. And you know, on

619
00:35:01.519 --> 00:35:04.159
the other side of this, Michelle, you know we of

620
00:35:04.199 --> 00:35:07.199
course I emphasize a lot on this program, is the

621
00:35:07.280 --> 00:35:08.760
nutritional aspect.

622
00:35:08.440 --> 00:35:09.239
Of all of this.

623
00:35:09.840 --> 00:35:15.440
If you're not feeling well because you're physically not eating

624
00:35:15.480 --> 00:35:16.440
a good diet.

625
00:35:16.199 --> 00:35:18.199
Being nutritious, you're animals in the same.

626
00:35:18.039 --> 00:35:22.840
State, doesn't that create even a worse condition, make make

627
00:35:22.920 --> 00:35:26.119
those circumstances more difficult to deal with.

628
00:35:26.719 --> 00:35:30.800
Absolutely, You're sitting there after Halloween and you're eating all

629
00:35:30.880 --> 00:35:35.519
that chocolate, right, can't resist that chocolate or whatever it

630
00:35:35.639 --> 00:35:39.400
can be the plase, Yeah, that's going to give you,

631
00:35:39.400 --> 00:35:43.400
you know, insulent spikes and you'll have issues maybe at

632
00:35:43.440 --> 00:35:46.719
your job or with your kids where you have angry

633
00:35:46.800 --> 00:35:51.239
or angry issues. You know, you're out of balance. My

634
00:35:51.320 --> 00:35:53.920
battery is well, I got to plug me in, keep going,

635
00:35:54.079 --> 00:35:56.400
keep talking, okay.

636
00:35:56.920 --> 00:35:59.400
But yeah, the nutritional part of this is a key

637
00:35:59.639 --> 00:36:03.519
as well, because if your body is out of balance.

638
00:36:03.559 --> 00:36:08.119
You're going to be not being able to think properly.

639
00:36:08.199 --> 00:36:10.280
Your brain is going to be a little bit you know,

640
00:36:10.440 --> 00:36:15.760
stressed out and you're going to be more reactive than proactive,

641
00:36:16.320 --> 00:36:21.599
and reaction is not always a positive, is it. Okay,

642
00:36:21.599 --> 00:36:25.880
you're having trouble with your ears again. Okay, but we

643
00:36:26.039 --> 00:36:28.920
you know, we don't want to be reactive because our

644
00:36:28.920 --> 00:36:31.639
body is out of balance. We need to be proactive,

645
00:36:31.760 --> 00:36:33.679
and we, you know, with some of the things that

646
00:36:33.760 --> 00:36:36.159
you said about exercising when you first get up, so

647
00:36:36.320 --> 00:36:39.440
stretching and things of that nature, get your get your

648
00:36:39.559 --> 00:36:44.960
brain into a positive mode. You know, you wake up

649
00:36:45.000 --> 00:36:47.639
and a dog, you know, or the cat pooped on

650
00:36:47.719 --> 00:36:50.679
the floor, don't freak out, You clean up.

651
00:36:50.760 --> 00:36:51.840
I mean, what else can you do?

652
00:36:51.920 --> 00:36:55.199
I mean, there's only one solution to fixing that you

653
00:36:55.280 --> 00:36:57.559
could You could get very very angry.

654
00:36:57.679 --> 00:36:59.079
And now you've started.

655
00:36:58.760 --> 00:37:02.039
Your whole day off in a state of mind that's

656
00:37:02.079 --> 00:37:06.960
not necessarily positive. And you know, again with your job,

657
00:37:07.000 --> 00:37:09.599
with my job, with everybody's jobs that's out there. You

658
00:37:09.639 --> 00:37:11.039
walk in the door, you don't know what's going to

659
00:37:11.159 --> 00:37:13.639
hit you. And if you already started out in that

660
00:37:13.719 --> 00:37:15.840
negative atmosphere.

661
00:37:15.440 --> 00:37:18.519
You're in trouble. And it really is trouble, isn't it.

662
00:37:19.599 --> 00:37:24.159
Surround yourself positive. Tell me who your friends are. I'll

663
00:37:24.199 --> 00:37:26.480
tell you because you are. My daddy always said that,

664
00:37:26.960 --> 00:37:32.079
and it's it's really true. Surround yourself, not only the positivity.

665
00:37:32.400 --> 00:37:36.960
Listen to it. Listen like rat music. I can't stand

666
00:37:37.000 --> 00:37:40.719
it against it. I just it puts me in a

667
00:37:40.800 --> 00:37:41.639
negative state.

668
00:37:42.039 --> 00:37:45.519
So if you're surrounding yourself, as I walk my dogs,

669
00:37:45.639 --> 00:37:48.320
I put on a positive podcast.

670
00:37:48.039 --> 00:37:50.960
I listen to I'm Happy. And as you complete the

671
00:37:51.079 --> 00:37:54.800
new and find out about it, that's okay. You get

672
00:37:54.840 --> 00:37:56.320
to know what's going out in the world.

673
00:37:56.400 --> 00:38:00.239
And I understand that I don't tell so people to

674
00:38:00.400 --> 00:38:01.480
it where it just.

675
00:38:01.679 --> 00:38:03.599
It consumes your whole being.

676
00:38:05.199 --> 00:38:09.119
That so I'm just saying it's difficult to talk to

677
00:38:09.239 --> 00:38:12.920
people who are so overwhelmed by what's going on.

678
00:38:13.320 --> 00:38:16.639
And yes, I can't control what's going on in the world.

679
00:38:16.960 --> 00:38:20.880
I can my part. I can't educate, that's my part.

680
00:38:21.239 --> 00:38:24.360
Well, when you look at the media, you know that

681
00:38:25.280 --> 00:38:29.519
what businesses are they in, they're they're communicating with you

682
00:38:29.559 --> 00:38:35.679
through programming, and that they're programming whatever they want, whatever

683
00:38:35.800 --> 00:38:38.239
narrative that they want you to follow it on any

684
00:38:38.280 --> 00:38:41.440
given day. And you know, we can hide something here,

685
00:38:42.000 --> 00:38:45.400
you know we can do something here that takes away

686
00:38:45.400 --> 00:38:48.000
from one or the other. But they're they're guiding all

687
00:38:48.039 --> 00:38:50.320
of us, and we have to take control of that.

688
00:38:51.360 --> 00:38:54.559
And you know that comes back to your original statement.

689
00:38:54.639 --> 00:38:59.199
You have to understand yourself and put yourself into those

690
00:38:59.599 --> 00:39:03.039
the right states that understand that you are being manipulated,

691
00:39:03.480 --> 00:39:06.400
that you are being You know that there's a certain

692
00:39:06.400 --> 00:39:09.360
amount of control and programming that's involved in all of

693
00:39:09.400 --> 00:39:09.960
this stuff.

694
00:39:10.320 --> 00:39:13.159
And I mean honest to get honest.

695
00:39:13.559 --> 00:39:17.079
Honestly, I mean even this show is a bit of programming,

696
00:39:17.639 --> 00:39:20.840
but it's it's we focus it on the positive, on

697
00:39:21.440 --> 00:39:25.639
how to fix the problems that somebody else actually created.

698
00:39:25.800 --> 00:39:27.400
I mean, when we look at our pets, when we

699
00:39:27.440 --> 00:39:29.679
look at when you look at people, and I do too.

700
00:39:30.039 --> 00:39:33.199
On a nutritional part of it, especially, you.

701
00:39:33.159 --> 00:39:37.719
Know, it's so important to get that base out there.

702
00:39:38.320 --> 00:39:41.239
I don't necessarily benefit from it. You don't benefit from it,

703
00:39:41.679 --> 00:39:44.559
but you're you know, the people listening to us and

704
00:39:44.599 --> 00:39:48.239
watching us right now, they can benefit from it through

705
00:39:48.559 --> 00:39:51.840
themselves and that self empowerment.

706
00:39:52.360 --> 00:39:53.800
Your learning to.

707
00:39:56.159 --> 00:39:59.119
Sell it to So you know, I want to touch

708
00:39:59.840 --> 00:40:03.719
that because some people are afraid to be alone, and

709
00:40:04.360 --> 00:40:09.559
there's a difference between being alone and lonely, and sometimes

710
00:40:09.679 --> 00:40:11.239
you know, they get into one.

711
00:40:11.679 --> 00:40:15.519
So those that live alone, you know, it doesn't.

712
00:40:15.199 --> 00:40:18.840
Mean that you are a lonely You can live alone

713
00:40:18.880 --> 00:40:21.440
and you have to you can. You have to learn

714
00:40:21.519 --> 00:40:22.559
to love who.

715
00:40:22.480 --> 00:40:25.880
You are to him, or you cannot be another peep,

716
00:40:26.280 --> 00:40:26.480
you know.

717
00:40:26.639 --> 00:40:30.360
And that's part of learning to be a love yourself,

718
00:40:30.920 --> 00:40:32.159
learning to be alone.

719
00:40:32.719 --> 00:40:34.199
Not everybody to do that.

720
00:40:35.440 --> 00:40:39.440
The next best thing the next person's dog. That's a

721
00:40:39.440 --> 00:40:44.400
perfect example right there. People get dogs back because they

722
00:40:44.400 --> 00:40:47.119
can't be alone, and then all of a sudden they

723
00:40:47.199 --> 00:40:49.360
have an animal and they can't take care.

724
00:40:49.199 --> 00:40:50.800
Of it because they can't even take care.

725
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Of themselves because they don't know how to eat but viral,

726
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you know, they don't know how to eat themselves, so

727
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how are they suspected to feed them? You know?

728
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From that?

729
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Yes, yeah, it's one that's you know, our body is

730
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a single system. It's not a bunch of just random parts.

731
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It's a system that has to work together. Our community,

732
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our friends, that's another system. The universe is another, you know,

733
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our solar system system.

734
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That's it. That's what we have to have learned to

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understand that we are.

736
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We aren't a and a part in a we are

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a part in a cog.

738
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But we're not.

739
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We don't function as just a part and we're a

740
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part of something much much bigger, and a lot of

741
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people you know, of course, have problems with it, you know,

742
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I mean I remember starting in the pet industry, our

743
00:41:45.519 --> 00:41:48.360
dogs were basically working dogs, whether they were for you know,

744
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guarding the house or hunting or running livestock or whatever.

745
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They slept out in the garage or out in the

746
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back room. And then they're slowly over time they've creeped

747
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into where we're buying you know, a thousand dollars, you know,

748
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crystal collars and hand knitted waters and coats and you know,

749
00:42:10.639 --> 00:42:13.360
all the designer stuff. But at the end of the day,

750
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it's still about the energy that we put into our animals,

751
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and part of that is through the foods, through nutrition,

752
00:42:21.079 --> 00:42:24.599
watching what we do as far as contamination of the body,

753
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because that you know, even with yourself, if you're on

754
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a bunch of drugs, medications, you know, whether they're legal

755
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or illegal, just because the doctor gives you, that doesn't

756
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mean that you're going to you know, those can shetter

757
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that love for yourself and that connection between you and

758
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your animal, because if they're zoned out.

759
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You know, because we're trying something, you know.

760
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And of course over time we've seen this so often

761
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with our animals not living the healthiest life that they should,

762
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and it's sometimes because of our convenience, and that's a

763
00:42:58.119 --> 00:43:01.400
major major portion of it. If you're eating junk food, okay,

764
00:43:01.440 --> 00:43:03.400
so junk foods go okay for your animal, but your

765
00:43:03.400 --> 00:43:05.639
animal can't say anything anymore.

766
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That's an issue.

767
00:43:07.199 --> 00:43:09.039
We got about two minutes left here on the show

768
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and then we got off to a late start. But

769
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like I said, we're doing the whole thing. Michelle a

770
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little bit more about what you do and how you

771
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can help people and how they can get a hold

772
00:43:19.639 --> 00:43:22.400
of you well.

773
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Coach all aspects of your life, spirit, physically, and she's like,

774
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I'm on Facebook.

775
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That's for the happy, thank you so much, just a

776
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little bit of the tidbits I had more.

777
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Of course, I speak like that.

778
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That's a teacher in you. And of course I can

779
00:43:51.960 --> 00:43:54.679
be reached in a number of different venues, you know,

780
00:43:54.880 --> 00:43:58.119
right here on the Pet Health Cafe of course, every week.

781
00:43:58.840 --> 00:44:00.239
All the archives are out there.

782
00:44:00.280 --> 00:44:03.960
Go on to YouTube, you can, you can find us

783
00:44:03.960 --> 00:44:09.679
there shot Spotify, you know, I'm also in uh my

784
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Paleo pet.

785
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I almost live there, and so if you need a consultation,

786
00:44:14.679 --> 00:44:15.480
you can you.

787
00:44:15.440 --> 00:44:19.599
Can always uh go on the website book a consultation.

788
00:44:21.320 --> 00:44:23.480
I do a lot of a lot of those, and

789
00:44:23.519 --> 00:44:25.719
what I do, I go into a lot of detail,

790
00:44:26.280 --> 00:44:30.159
you know, bringing the facts as best we know to

791
00:44:30.159 --> 00:44:33.000
the to that thing. So you understand they take as

792
00:44:33.039 --> 00:44:35.960
much time as I need you with people, and uh

793
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of course you know we at my Paleo Pet we

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have both farm the table products for people, you.

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Know, pasture raise eggs and you know.

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Meats and proteins and raw honeys and all kinds of herbs. Essentially,

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we are the only, probably the only so called pet

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store that everything in that store is human grade that

799
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you can take it your So with that being said,

800
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thank you everyone for listening watching.

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We appreciate the time that you put into this.

802
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Share it again with everybody that you can, and we

803
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will read back again in another week.

804
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Thank you for watching. Bye bye.

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